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"It doesn't matter what we do as long as we are together," says Arthur of girl friend Shelley.
Homeowner and
Self-Advocate
It’s a Thursday morning, just before noon, and Arthur S. stares out the window. “My girlfriend Shelley will be here any minute,” he says, with a note of excitement. “We’re going to lunch at Applebee’s.”
Arthur has just returned from a speaking engagement at an orientation session for new Westchester Arc employees. During the meeting, he helped to dispel stereotypes concerning people with disabilities as he discussed the joys and obstacles of living in the community. “I live by myself in a condo that I own. I work three days a week at the YMCA and travel around Westchester by public bus,” explains Arthur. “I have wants and needs just like you.”
Though he’s an extremely independent person, Arthur takes comfort in knowing that his family, as well as friends at Westchester Arc, are there for him should he need assistance. Arthur got involved with the agency five years ago after meeting Ralph Szur, director of life planning, at a self-advocacy workshop. The two formed an instant friendship and Ralph became Arthur’s mentor. He recommended that Arthur speak at agency orientations and helped him design a PowerPoint presentation.
“Many staff members have commented that Arthur’s presentation is one of the most memorable parts of orientation,” notes Ralph. “It really helps them to see that people with disabilities are capable of so much.”
Desiring community employment, Arthur worked with Westchester Arc’s supported employment program to find his job at the YMCA, where he folds towels, maintains the exercise area and men’s locker room, and orders supplies. “I’m very thankful to Westchester Arc for all of their support,” he says. “They are a wonderful agency that does a lot of good for people.”
Prior to living on his own, Arthur shared a home with his mom. “I love my family, but sometimes you need a little privacy,” he comments. So with the help of his sister and brother-in-law, Arthur bought a condo in Yonkers. “I’m a lot more self-confident since I started living on my own.”
In his spare time, Arthur enjoys hanging out with Shelley. They go out for dinner, take trips to Atlantic City and walk around Manhattan. “It doesn’t matter what we do, as long as we’re together,” says Arthur.
And speaking of Shelley, here she is. Right on time and ready to go. Arthur springs from his chair and heads for the door. But not without offering one last comment. “To anyone with a disability, I want to say, the best way to become independent is to become a self-advocate.”